Getting Her Name Wrong

Recently I was doing a psychic reading for a client overseas. It was her second consultation and involved the same issue that was remaining stubbornly unresolved for her. The oddest thing for me was that I kept calling her “Terri” instead of her real name “Andi” despite a number of corrections.

I almost never forget a person’s name. I’m blessed with a good memory in general, but when it comes to names, I am almost always able to recall it even after not speaking for some time. But with this client, it’s as if the default was off kilter no matter how many times it went through a readjustment. Finally she said to me, “You keep calling me Terri and actually that’s my father’s name and he’s dead.”

I was dumbfounded. We both of course jumped immediately to the conclusion that her father was trying to tell her something through me and all we had to do was decipher the message. After a bit of back and forth jousting we unfurled the heart of his message. Since then, not surprisingly, I have no trouble recalling her true name!

Would You Remove a Curse PLEASE?!

I’m often asked if I remove curses. A client believes they have been a victim of one of those pesky curses that are designed to disrupt your life to the point where you just feel like anything you attempt will come to naught. Relationships, money, career and health all seem to be disintegrating all at once. The polar opposite to the green thumb or the golden touch.

Everyone has those times in their lives when nothing seems to be going smoothly or even right. And it seems to erupt abruptly: One day we are awakening to joy and appreciation in our hearts about how great our life is going, to what seems like the very next day, when it feels like a dump truck has just dropped its load on our head.

The first week or so you are just dancing like crazy with characteristic positivity and optimism to fix problems as they spring up like crocuses in the spring.

Months later however, you are feeling beleaguered, exhausted and overwhelmed. A kind of depression settles in. Your normally optimistic and positive view has turned to pessimism and even cynicism. You don’t really like being around people – in the very worst cases you are so depressed you can’t get yourself out of bed in the morning and you’re asking the doctor for antidepressants just to get through the day.

A Curse Application Specialist

One day a friend suggests you discuss your problems with a spiritual advisor and lo and behold an explanation is offered that finally makes sense: You have been labouring and drowning under a curse! Someone has consulted a curse application specialist and had a vile curse put on you. The spiritual advisor proceeds to grill you, “Who have you made an enemy of lately?” “Who is so angry, resentful or jealous of you that they would have you cursed?” You wrack your brain for anyone and everyone you’ve ever slighted, offended or hurt.

The best news of all is that you discover that curses can be lifted by the right person for nothing more complicated than money. With a bit of mumbo jumbo and complex ritual involving exotic things like snake eyes or frog toe nails this pesky demon can be sent on its way finally leaving you to resume your old, joy filled abundantly rich life. Yahoo! back to the wonder of good fortune, happiness and loving relationships.
It’s not really surprising people buy readily into this notion.

Curse removers can charge the moon for such a service and often do. I’ve heard of fees as high as $5000 paid for this kind of toxic spirit removal.

We Don’t Boss Spirit Around

The problem with this whole notion is that we humans don’t boss spirit around. We cannot call upon a legion of so called angels or devils to do our bidding. Spirit might be able to communicate with you but really it’s rather hit and miss. You have be capable of that level of receptivity in tandem with a spirit wishing to communicate with you who is equally capable to making that connection from their side. Not as easy as many might have you believe! There are many different ways to conceptualize this process. Some describe it as a vibration talent. The medium is capable to elevating their vibration to meet the lower level of the spirit’s densified vibration.

That’s why when it happens, it’s sort of mind blowing. And you can be sure that spirit really, really wants to communicate. This client’s father chose my client’s and my connection to get some sort of message across to her. She asked me if this was related to the fellow she was involved with and I thought it very likely since her lover was also a professional psychic. He was her psychic advisor become lover. That meant there was lots of sizzling hot psychic energy to provide her father’s spirit the vehicle it needed to connect with her.

Of course deciphering the gist of the message itself was going to take some work since it was all rather cryptic! Another characteristic of spirit communication: Cryptic to say the least!

Since I didn’t feel confident that this relationship was a good one overall for her, I could only deduce that this was the message her father wanted to reinforce. After all he did seem to be encouraging our connection by letting his presence be known through the mistake I kept making in her name.

Spirit Actually Speaking to You is Rare

This is a good example of how complex and labour intensive communication with spirit really is. It’s not just a matter of hearing someone speak clearly to you in your language. That does happen but rarely. For this type of communication to take place, there must be a powerful love connection between the spirit and the human recipient. Typically this sort of communication comes through in a dream state and knowing when a spirit is actually speaking to you in a dream versus when you are simply dreaming about them because you are missing them, is another deciphering that take some work to successfully navigate.

Curses are the Stuff of Fantasy & Fiction

Curses are the stuff of fantasy and fiction. No one can command spirit to do their bidding either for good or bad. You can pray for help which is asking not telling. If you get some crazy notion to work a ritualized negativity towards someone, I would caution you that this could just as easily boomerang and blow up in your life. Spirit may decide you are the one in need of a spiritual lesson not the person you are planning to curse.

A better alternative is to ask for help from spirit when things are going badly. It might be simply indicative that you need to make some changes.

Our lives do spiral in cycles and even good cycles come to an end. Always keep in mind that through acceptance comes change. Sometimes the universe just won’t let us have everything we want all the time. It just says no and it means it. Shift your direction, take a breather, and listen carefully to the guidance of spirit. Communicating with spirit is all about listening, not telling.